He won't have phone with me anymore because he thinks it's desperate?!?

Ok, I know I asked this once already but I rephrased it. Me and my b/f have been going out for 13 months and we've had 2 handful of times and last June before we ever started having he would masturbate on the phone because when I stretch it sounds like I'm moaning, but I'm not. And I would do it to annoy him by making him as hard as a rock and really it turned me on too. Then in June I started doing it with him. We'd both talk in cute low voices and he started making the iest sounds that I EVER heard that get me turned on just thinking about. Like he would get turned on by my sounds, and I would get turned on by his and we'd both have an to that. But we haven't done that in a good while now and we were talking about my guy friend masturbating on the phone with me and my bestie and then when we we're on the phone privately him trying to get me to do it. And he said that's desperate and then he paused for a sec. and said "I guess I'm desperate," "You know if a guy